Feminization - the Solution to Frigid Wives!
In 1962 Dorothy L. Grant, a popular 'agony aunt', published her now infamous book about frigid wives.
These extracts from this best-selling publication clearly identify the reasons for her subsequent notoriety:
"For the most of the first half of the twentieth century young woman have been warned, often in most lurid detail, about the dangers of pre-marital sex. It is painful and dangerous to health. It spreads disease. It leads to pregnancy and loss of reputation. Worried mothers, schoolteachers, and even family doctors perpetuated stories designed to frighten virginal teenagers from experimenting with sex. These scare-stories worked! In my postbag week after week I hear from young wives who are terrified of their own husbands!"
"Trying to convince a woman that lovemaking is not painful is similar to persuading a child that injections don't hurt. Difficult - particularly when the virginal female is convinced that men are by nature 'brutal'. To counteract years of 'propaganda' the sensitive husband has to satisfy his fearful spouse that he is; gentle, kind, non-aggressive, and non-threatening. These are not exactly 'masculine' qualities. Indeed to succeed he must hide his masculinity and promote all of his feminine attributes."
"Passive, indeed submissive behaviour on the part of the husband is by far the best way to reduce the element of fear. When this is accompanied by 'feminisation' - and by this I mean the husband and wife swapping traditional roles - the success rate is almost 100 per cent."
"I have never promoted transvestite behaviour, or female to male violence. But, it should be stressed, husbands that have agreed to be 'maids'; or 'dressed in skirts', or accept a wife's right to 'punish' are eliminating, at a stroke, the very fear that causes the wife to be frigid. Lovemaking usually follows such behavioural patterns."
We take a long hard look at her case files. Theses heart-breaking, and yet uplifting tales will excite your senses. We hear from women who have lived happy and ultimately sensual lives after feminising their husbands.
"To me it made perfect sense - but Alan was reluctant to be seen as a sissy." Explains Martha, "For three days Alan wore a pink dress and a white apron. He became totally obedient and submissive. On the fourth day I made love to him in the kitchen. How could I possibly be frightened of a man in a pink maid's outfit?"
"Our honeymoon was a disaster," says Olga, who got married in 1968, "as soon as he undressed everything I'd ever heard about sex filled my mind. I wouldn't, couldn't let him touch me. Dorothy Grant's advice saved my marriage. Jeremy told me he would never, ever, make the first move. Which meant I could relax knowing I was in control. In bed he told me to pretend I was the husband. Six months later I made love to Brad, and the fact that he was wearing my night-dress helped!"
We also hear from the men who became 'wives'!
"My beautiful young wife was scared of me and scared of sex." Bill explains, "Her head and been filled with horror stories about 'disgusting and painful' sex. The logic of Dorothy Grant's approach to our problem was impeccable. I wore a maid's uniform in the kitchen, I happily wore a pink nightgown in our bed, and slowly I convinced Betty that she was in control. The first time she kissed and caressed me in bed I refused to react. It took many such nights of passive inactivity but eventually she made love to me."
And from the couples who continued their role-swapping long after curing the original frigidity!
"By the time I was confident enough to engage in lovemaking Greg and I had had practically swapped roles." Gina says, "I for one saw no reason to change what was a pleasant and practical arrangement. In fact the subject never arose - we simply continued to act as though Greg was my wife. After twenty-five years of marriage I continue to make love to Greg. And yes, he still wears a dress!"
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