There are women who insist that penetration must come first - before oral-training, even before feminisation!

It doesn't matter whether you use a sex-toy, a strap-on or a double-ended dildo, once a male-maid submits to the act of penetration-by-a-female, he has, in effect, surrendered any genuine claim to masculinity. Immediately after the act the woman can, and should, dress him appropriately. Resistance will be merely token. He can easily be uniformed and then he can be trained orally!

We take a long hard look at their unusual views. We would normally advise a certain amount of maid-training, and certainly a little feminisation or bedroom domination, prior to attempting any strap-on usage.

And we invite your views and experiences.

Doctor Drew was a marriage counsellor who became infamous in the early eighties when her 'role-swapping'' and 'maid-training' regime was exposed. Her followers claimed that she was merely proposing that strong, naturally aggressive and dominant husbands should adopt the life-style of a servant (preferably a female servant), so as to fully understand the role and responsibilities of being a woman and a wife.

We examine her methods, particularly the ones relating to husbands becoming maids or even wives, for a day, and her belief that men should 'transfer their masculine authority to their wives' to prove their love.

'Submission can be an act of love. And punishment can also be an act of genuine affection. Parents who spank their children do so because they want the best for the whole family. Women who beat their husbands are acting in a similar manner - they want only the best for their husbands.' She insists.

' I tell all of the wives in my program that they must give their husband's a gift of a pretty lace-trimmed maid's apron. I ask all the husbands in my program to give their wives a heavy, old-fashioned hairbrush as a gift. The hairbrush is to be used for domestic discipline, and it symbolises his acceptance of her right to punish her servant.

The enormous significance of the apron and the hairbrush should not be underestimated; it tells both parties that the marriage can be rescued. The symbolism is obvious. The formal giving of these gifts, in front of witnesses, can be described as maid training. But in reality it is a new start for the couple, and it works! I know that many wives who have been to my seminars now settle all domestic rows by tying a frilly apron about the waist of their hotheaded husband and displaying the hairbrush! A man wearing an frilly maid's apron does NOT shout. A man who has been beaten with a hairbrush WILL accept a woman's views!'

I WANT TO BE A MAID!